Leading with Empathy

28
Oct
You Don’t Have to Be the Loudest One in the Room to Lead

You Don’t Have to Be the Loudest One in the Room to Lead

I used to think leadership meant being loud. But the more I lead, the more I see the power of quiet confidence and the ripple it creates in a team.
3 min read
13
Oct
What Our Standups Say About Our Team Culture

What Our Standups Say About Our Team Culture

There’s a special kind of quiet chaos that lives in a remote standup. Someone’s camera is off. Someone
2 min read
04
Sep
Soft Skills Aren’t Soft: The Hardest Skills for Developers to Learn

Soft Skills Aren’t Soft: The Hardest Skills for Developers to Learn

We call them soft skills like they’re optional add-ons, or somehow easier than the “real” work. Honestly? I’ve
4 min read
02
Sep
My Brain Has 47 Tabs Open and 3 Are Playing Music

My Brain Has 47 Tabs Open and 3 Are Playing Music

Most days as a dev manager, my head feels exactly like my Chrome browser: too many tabs open, fans working
2 min read
28
Aug
AI Won’t Steal Your Job — But It Will Change It

AI Won’t Steal Your Job — But It Will Change It

Everywhere you turn right now, someone is predicting that AI will take our jobs. And I get it — big changes
2 min read
23
Jul
Imposter Syndrome Didn’t Go Away When I Got Promoted

Imposter Syndrome Didn’t Go Away When I Got Promoted

There’s this idea that once you climb the ranks—get that promotion, lead a team, take on more responsibility—
3 min read
17
Jul
Comfort, Chaos, and Leadership: A Remote Work Love Story

Comfort, Chaos, and Leadership: A Remote Work Love Story

Let’s get one thing out of the way: I work in sweatpants. And not the trendy, matching-loungewear kind. I
2 min read
15
Jul
I Never Planned to Be a Leader—Then It Happened Anyway

I Never Planned to Be a Leader—Then It Happened Anyway

I never saw myself as a leader. I was a Senior Developer, deeply introverted—like, full-on “social events make me
3 min read
24
Jun
Mistakes Happen. Here’s How I Help My Team Grow from Them

Mistakes Happen. Here’s How I Help My Team Grow from Them

When I first stepped into a team lead role, my reaction to mistakes—especially under pressure—was best described as
3 min read
10
Jun
Just Say It: Why the “Hey” Message Triggers Me (And Many Others)

Just Say It: Why the “Hey” Message Triggers Me (And Many Others)

About a year into working at a new company, I was asked to lead one of our internal projects. It
3 min read